5 Ways To Enjoy Your Holidays after a Breakup!
Naturally this is the season to be thankful and to share your joy with your loved ones, and it’s also a time when many people feel alone due to the loss of loved ones though death and/or out of breakups. Many people are going through divorces and other things that bring about separation. It’s hard to celebrate the holiday’s when you are missing someone that was so close to you, and its also very understandable. I can understand the grief of death waaaay better than the loss of some ex that probably treated you like shit anyways. So with that being said…
Fuck Him, Her, and It or whatever that you use to date and keep the shit moving. This is the time to be happy and spend with your real friends and family. You have no time for the bullshit that your ex might have put you through in the past. Its Xmas time and you want to be out and about shopping, eating, drinking, smoking, snorting (just Kidding…I think), or whatever your thing is. Here are just a few of my personal ways to help you enjoy yourself and live D’oro Della Vita (The Golden Life).
Talk to them as less as possible - I know that some of you have kids with your ex’s and that you have to talk to them sometimes, but limit that shit as much as possible. Drop the kids off at their house’s and smash on the gas, no need for small talk.
Spend time with real friends and Family - The best people to be around are people who want to be around you. I am not talking about those fake ass friends and so called family members that just want to gossip and be nosy, I’m talking about Real people who check on you and make sure that you are ok.
Buy Some Shit - That’s right!! Take yourself shopping and buy some shit that YOU want, not your kids, not your mama, not your fam…YOU! You have worked all year and put up with all sorts of foolishness, go buy some real bullshit if you feel like it. As soon as I publish this post, I am about to go and buy me some shit lol, and I’m not going through a break up, I just want to by some shit.
Meet New People - Put on some fresh clothes, get out and go to some Christmas parties, go wine tasting, go sit at a bar at a fancy hotel and mingle. I’m not saying that you need to go out and find a new relationship to hop in, but it feels good to make new friends. It can help you keep your mind off of that ole fool that you just got rid of.
Spend Some Time With GOD - On a more serious note, get to know your maker and really talk to him. This is what the Christmas season is all about. God knows all and he gave his only son to us as a sacrifice, so there is no better way to deal with life than taking your problems to God.
I hope that these 5 little steps fan help you the way that they helped me a few years ago. 5 years ago I was going through a divorce and it was quite different spending my holidays without my ex, but I didn’t let it get me down. I had fun with some old friends, I treated myself real good, and spent time with some good people. Let’s all practice living D’oro Della Vita.
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